Eighty is a number. It happens to signify my age in a few days– October seventh to be exact. But to help you understand how old I really am, I want to share a few things.
On my third birthday I got a doll house. I loved it so much and my grandmother gave it away when I was a teenager. I wanted to keep it in case I ever had a child, but she didn’t know that.

I took ballet and tap dancing when I was a little girl.


Kids played outside in San Diego where I grew up. We were seldom in the house. We played baseball in the street and hated it when cars would interrupt our games. Hide and Go Seek was my favorite outdoor game. Especially at night. The whole neighborhood would get together after dinner and it was a blast.
Girls played Jacks, and boys played Marbles. Once in a while my brother would let me play marbles too. But only if he didn’t have a boy to play with. They had bags of marbles and aggies were their prized possessions. True aggies were carved from agates, and they were beautiful. Most marbles are made of glass.


Pick-up Sticks was played by girls and boys, sometimes together. It required patience and skill so as not to knock down all the sticks. You had to remove them without causing the whole pile to crash.

We had Gyros and Tops and Yo-Yos.



But one of my personal favorite things to do was to play string games. Cat’s Cradle, that you played with a partner, where you’d take turns passing a loop of string back and forth to create different geometric shapes without letting the string tangle.

And Jacob’s ladder you’d play solo. You start with a loop of string across your palms and then perform a series of finger and thumb transfers. It was a lot of fun, but not that easy.
Later on the Hula Hoop came along and we spent hours making those things move with our hips. Jump Rope was popular in the 1950s and we had chants that went along with them. “Not last night but the night before. Twenty-four robbers came knocking at my door.” I think the Pogo Stick showed around that time too. I remember there were lots of injuries with that one. My brother made me a set of stilts out of old lumber. I loved them. It was fun being so tall. I could use some of those now.

Hop Scotch was a classic children’s game then too. We’d draw the squares and use a thing we called a lager to toss in the first square to start. You’d skip the first square, hop into the second square and then continue through the connected squares. You’d pick up your lager on the way back. Then throwing your lager into the second square, skipping that one, and so on.
Television was non existent in my house until I was nine years old. Can you even imagine a time there was no television? And our television was a 12 inch screen, but the cabinet was large enough to house big tubes to bring the picture to us. Of course the picture was in black and white and there were only about four channels. It would be years before we had a color TV.

The only show I liked was The Mickey Mouse Club. It ran from October 3, 1955 – September 25, 1959. Mom let me eat dinner in front of the TV on a TV tray to watch it, as a reward for good behavior. Annette Funicello still stands out in my mind as one of the best Mouseketeers. I was such a nerd I wore my Micky Mouse ears when I watched the show.

The first Disneyland was opened when I was nine too. It was in Anaheim, CA, a couple hours drive from our house. I went every year after that too, and continued to enjoy it when my kids were little. Those days are fond memories.
We had a rotary dial phone when I was a youngster. It was in the hallway in a small cubby area built-in for it. The cord was short, so you had to stand in the hall to talk. The kicker though, was that we had what was called a “party line.” It was annoying actually, not a party. There was one other household that shared the phone line, so if you picked up the phone and someone was talking, you couldn’t use the phone. No call could come in either, it would send a busy signal to the caller. After a few minutes you could pick up the phone again, and if someone was still talking, you were out of luck. The other person could hear you pick up the phone and if they didn’t hear you hang up, they’d tell you to hang up. Back in those days people didn’t talk for too long though. Mostly you used the phone for making appointments or quickly getting information from friends or a family member from out of town or you were inviting someone over. My brother and I rarely used the phone until we were teenagers.

By then, we had a private line and you could buy a 25 ft. cord that would allow you to bring the phone into another room if it was not more than 25 feet away. I talked with my friends for hours slipping the cord under my door. Privacy was important.
I had a radio in my bedroom and could listen to Elvis, The Everly Brothers, Chuck Berry, Ray Charles, Sam Cook, Connie Francis, Roy Orbison to name a few. Blue Moon was a favorite of mine and Theme from a Summer Place by Percy Faith. You can almost hear me singing along to Chubby Checker’s “Twist” and his next one “Twist Again.” One of the songs I loved was “Tonight You Belong to Me” by Patience and Prudence. I loved to sing along to all the songs. Did I mention I was a nerd?
The 60s brought us surf movies. Beach Blanket Bingo, Ride the Wild Surf (I saw in a drive-in in Hawaii in 1964), and of course Endless Summer and Gidget.
Dance crazes besides the twist were The Mashed Potato, The Swim, The Fy, and The Watusi. As teenagers we loved what we called the slow dances. Girls put their arms around the guys neck and he’d put his arms around your waist. And you’d move slowly with your bodies pressed together if you liked the person. If not, you weren’t wrapped around each other and you were careful to keep your distance, which is what the adult chaperones were always wanting you to do anyway.


In the summer we went to the beach and had barbecues. We’d jump the waves, catch sand crabs, make sand castles, eat hamburgers, and generally wear ourselves out. In San Diego there are a ton of family beaches and bays to visit. We had to learn to swim when we were very young.

Being a child was a lot simpler than it is for kids now. Things have dramatically changed, and in my opinion it was way more fun back when I was young in the late 40s, the 50s and early 60s.
think I’ll get some chalk and make a hop scotch grid. I can use a stone for my lager. Want to join me?
If not, see ya on the flip side.

*Photos are from Google or Getty Images, except the first three, and this last one which are from my own library.













































































































































































