Celebrating Day of the Dead or Halloween?

        This is my mom at 98 years old celebrating Halloween 2014.

Mom has always done a really good witch cackle, so it is appropriate that she dress like this. However, she doesn’t really look scary enough to be a witch with that smile. I told her she should do her witch cackle for the trick or treaters, but she was afraid she would scare them. My brother and I used to beg her to do it for our friends, and later, after I had kids, my own would beg her to do it for their friends. One time she did. The little friend of my son’s said, “If you had done that when I was in the woods, I would have shit my pants.” Mom was flabbergasted with his potty mouth. (This kid was only about 10 years old). We all got a good laugh.

Personally, I am not a fan of Halloween, but I know a lot of people who are. Dressing up as a different character can be fun, I’m sure. But it’s just not what I do. I am interested in the Mexican tradition of Día de los Muertos, Day of the Dead, though, especially now that I live in Mexico. In this culture, one celebrates those family members who have died. There are certain foods and things to prepare for the alter and it is a chance to show respect and love for the ones who have gone to the other side. Here’s a good link (short) to explain more if you are interested: http://www.celebrate-day-of-the-dead.com

Traditional-pan-de-muerto-example

I love the art associated with this holiday.

Greg is off to his favorite surf spot.

Whether you like to dress up on Halloween, go to parties, hand out treats, or celebrate the Mexican way, may you find joy cada día, each day.

Frida Kahlo and Jack Sparrow